While what’s happening right now might not be completely to your liking, understand that it might just be a temporary dilemma which you, if not cautious, can end up making permanent.
Given the current circumstances, perhaps your expectations are a bit unreasonable. It might be unwise for you to judge, anything or anyone, while under the influence of your emotions.
Only time can sober your feelings and wise up your speech. Any words spoken or acts performed while intoxicated with emotions can create a lifetime of regret.
“Only the unwise will speak while upset; for the upset only speaks unwisely.” ~Andres Lara