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talk about your problems

Change The Topic

It’s very addictive talking about your problems. And while this topic might get you some sympathy here and there; remember that sympathy can only get you so far. To get to where you want to get, which is a lot further than where sympathy can get you, you must change the topic. Talk about your […]

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The Perfect Moment

The Perfect Moment

The perfect moment. Everyone is waiting for it. Some even wait their entire lives for this one moment which will be much better than any other. Stop waiting. It’s unnecessary. There’s not such a thing as the perfect moment. Yes some moments could be more advantageous than others, but the advantage gained many times is

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Superior Thinking

Superior Thinking

You will be tempted to think about all the things that could go wrong. Negativity is very seductive, entertaining, and even humorous. Resist to be entertained by it. Train your mind to stay within the boundaries of what could go right, of what’s the best thing that could happen, of what would it be like

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Difficult Road

Difficult Roads

No one likes difficult roads but remember that easy roads, rarely if ever, lead anywhere worth being. It will be wise not to select a path based on the scale of its difficulty but rather on the worth of its destination. Resist the human tendency to seek out what’s easy and understand that the most

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Things Do Not Make You Happy

One More Thing

There’s one thing that you must do. One more thing you must accomplish. One more place, you must visit, then you will experience happiness. There’s always one more thing between you and happiness. But it’s not always been this way. Happiness, at the beginning, always resided within your personal bubble. It was not until you

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The Rest of Your Life

The rest of your life can still be the best of your life. And while past and current happenings might make you believe otherwise; realize that the likeability of something happening is increased or diminished by a belief. . Believe that there’s room for things to be better, believe that inspite of what’s happening that

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Turbulent Times

Some of the most intelligent choices and forward-looking decisions that you will ever make will come to you while undergoing turbulent times. Whatever adversity you are facing is forcing you out of your comfort zone. It’s causing you to reflect and to reassess. It’s because of it that right now you are more open to

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Speak Wisely

While what’s happening right now might not be completely to your liking, understand that it might just be a temporary dilemma which you, if not cautious, can end up making permanent. Given the current circumstances, perhaps your expectations are a bit unreasonable. It might be unwise for you to judge, anything or anyone, while under

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